Top Ten Tips for Relationships1 Listen as fully and as presently as possible - give your full attention to the other person.
2 Communicate as openly and as clearly as possible how you feel.
3.Take responsibility for your own feelings and experience.
4 Remember we are all motivated by the need to feel loved and the desire to protect ourselves from pain.
5 Accept that we are all unique and experience things differently depending on our personal history, our particular issues and our take on the world.
6 Allow the other person to be who they are.
7 Let go of attempting to MAKE others be what you need them to be.
8 Stop blaming the other for how you feel.Remember no-one else MAKES you angry or upset they just do things that trigger these responses in you.
9 Appreciate whats good about the other more than whats missing or wrong.
10 When something ' bugs' you in the other ,try to locate that trait or quality in yourself - invariably what we can`t stand in others is a characteristic we can`t accept in ourselves.